Wow..

Well i suppose i will talk a bit here.. i find this video quite touching.. and i agree with what Mrs. Lee said..

"It's these small things that you remember, little "imperfections" that make them perfect, for you"

I suppose nowadays people talk about the 'perfect partner for you' this and that and people ended up having a very high expectation in a relationship, or, what they think should be 'perfect' as defined by the general public.

At first it may be all happy-happy but later on in the relationship, or marriage in this case, when little "imperfections" starts to appear, the relationship goes strained because one party couldn't bear with it etc. and thus, so many, in this case in marriages, so many divorces happened.

In a Christian point of view, don't get me wrong as i'm not saying we should settle for second best rather than the person God has planned for each of us to be with since even before we were born; or that we should have low standards and compromise our Biblical values for someone. It's just that we should seek God's Will, in relationships and not to simply take or think of boy-girl-relationships lightly as how the world would like us to be. There's shouldn't be so many trials-and-errors, if not none at all, in finding that person that's for us as long as we seek Him first.

For me, i think that when our relationships with God come first and are in the right track, other stuffs like relationships will then come into place, as in, we don't have to worry about it. We don't have to be "desperate" to go find one because we just have to trust in Him when the time comes for us to ask God whether that person is who He wants us to be with; the green light for us to pursue the relationship, etc. Plus, now we're all still young! (haha)

And when we found that person and get married, later on in the marriage if such "imperfections" start to come up, seek God and also remember about this video and be encouraged that things will work out. Don't resort to divorce. As long as if it's who God has wanted us to be with, there shouldn't be a mistake marrying them.

Well i just feel like sharing this and just type out what came into mind. Feel free to share your thoughts brothers and sisters because i may get it wrong or need to be corrected. It's through discussions that we can all improve ma!

haha

-ronan
p.s. because this is an on-the-spot-thing, i didn't have time to find references and stuffs.. and i gotta go rush my assignments now! haha

Must watch!